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Do's and Dont's during a divorce with children in Florida

Divorce can be a difficult and emotional process, especially when children are involved. If you are going through a divorce in Florida and have children, it's important to understand your rights and responsibilities and take steps to protect the best interests of your children. Family Help Center is a trusted source of information and support for families going through divorce, and our attorneys can provide you with guidance and representation throughout the process. Here are some do's and don'ts to keep in mind during a divorce with children in Florida.


  1. Communicate effectively: Effective communication is critical during a divorce with children. Try to maintain a level of civility with your spouse and avoid engaging in arguments or confrontations in front of your children. If necessary, consider using a parenting coordinator to facilitate discussions and help resolve disputes.

  2. Seek legal advice: Divorce laws in Florida can be complex, and it's important to seek the advice of a qualified divorce attorney. An attorney can help you understand your rights and responsibilities, including time sharing with the children and support, and guide you through the divorce process, including negotiations and court proceedings.

  3. Be organized: During a divorce, it's essential to keep track of all relevant documents and information, including financial records, court papers, and agreements. Consider using a digital platform to store and organize these materials.

  4. Be honest: Honesty is always the best policy, especially when children are involved. Be transparent in your dealings with your spouse and the court, and avoid hiding assets or making false statements. This can help to avoid legal consequences and create a more positive outcome for both parties.

  5. Focus on the children: During a divorce, it's important to focus on the needs and well-being of your children. Avoid using your children as pawns or involving them in the divorce process, and make decisions that are in their best interests.

  6. Take care of yourself: Divorce can be emotionally and mentally draining, especially when children are involved. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist, and engage in activities that bring you joy and help you to manage stress.

  7. Be flexible: During a divorce, it's common to have strong opinions and positions on various issues, such as property division and time sharing arrangements. However, it's important to be open to negotiation and compromise. Being flexible and willing to work with your spouse can help to resolve disputes more quickly and with less stress.


  1. Don't engage in bad behavior: Divorce can bring out negative emotions and behaviors, such as anger, frustration, and depression. However, it's important to avoid engaging in activities that could be harmful or damaging, such as excessive alcohol consumption or destructive behavior.

  2. Don't use children as pawns: During a divorce, it's important to avoid using your children as leverage or involving them in the divorce process. This can have a negative impact on their emotional well-being and harm their relationship with both parents.

  3. Don't hide assets: Hiding assets is illegal in Florida and can result in serious consequences, including fines and imprisonment. Be honest and transparent in your financial dealings during the divorce process.

  4. Don't neglect your responsibilities: During a divorce, it's important to fulfill your obligations, such as paying bills and supporting your children, even if you disagree with your spouse. Ignoring these responsibilities can harm your children and negatively impact your case in court.

  5. Don't badmouth your spouse: Refrain from speaking negatively about your spouse to your children, family, or friends. This includes posting on social media about your spouse. This type of behavior can harm your children and their relationship with their other parent.

  6. Don't make major decisions without considering the impact on your children: Decisions such as relocating or changing schools can have a significant impact on your children's lives. Courts frown on parents making unilateral decisions. Be mindful of these impacts and involve your spouse in the decision-making process.

  7. Don't ignore the legal process: The divorce process in Florida involves specific legal requirements and deadlines. Ignoring these requirements can result in delays and additional costs, and can harm your case in court.

In conclusion, divorce with children in Florida can be a complex and challenging process, but with the right guidance and support, it is possible to reach a positive outcome. Family Help Center is here to support you every step of the way. Our experienced divorce attorneys can help you navigate the legal system, protect your rights, and promote the best interests of your children. Contact us today for more information and to schedule a consultation.

This article is a service of Family Help Center. We ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about your family. That's why we offer a free limited consultation, during which we will work with you to analyze the best strategy for your case. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a consultation and finding out how we can help you reduce conflict for your family.

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